ALL THE SELF-ISH STUFF !!

There a lot of words in English dictionary that starts with the word SELF.

for example: SELF-CONFIDENCE , SELF-ESTEEM, SELF-RELIANT, SELF-EFFICACY, SELF-EFFICIENT, SELF-DETERMINATION

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In short all of the words you can think of and then put a self in front !

Or what I like to call them all the SELF-ish words !

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I have met a lot of people who qualify in many of these fields and some do extra-ordinary in them

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but there are a lot of people who don’t !

And personally I do have some of those self-ish qualities and I do lack in some of them !

And I am not going to bullshit you by saying its ok !

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We all have gone through our fair share of problems, some more than the others

and we have more shit to go through.

Therefore I think its better to have every weapon in your arsenal,

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metaphorically not literally !

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We try to overcome our shortcomings but sometimes we are just too involved and devoted.

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yes, really !

I know you think we should actually be those things and achieve something but how much of an involvement is better ?

Because there will be times when we have to pick ourselves up and dust ourselves out and I am pretty sure I don’t want to be crying at that point and embarrass myself more !

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And when we are too involved we tend to make everything personal and in the process lose some traits that we already did possess like the feeling of self-worth !

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And some that don’t even try are either very lazy or just don’t think that it will be worth it in the end.

I have learned something during my process of becoming SELF-ish.

and I am going to share it with you.

  • Surround yourself with good people and if you don’t have any in your life find new ones because the world is not exactly doomed.
  •  Be selfish at times when the situation warrants it because it is needed !
  • Have faith !
  • Don’t become too attached to the cause because then you would just want to quit every single time you fail because you don’t want to feel the failure !
  • Except things and have the ability to move on !
  • Fight until and unless you come out a winner !
  • And enjoy every moment of it whether its ups or downs !

Be yourself.

Live and Let live.

Love everybody !

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4 thoughts on “ALL THE SELF-ISH STUFF !!

  1. Yaya says:

    Nice post, indeed ‘don’t become too attached’, funny and true!

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Love this post. 🙂 I too agree with you and Yaya, ‘don’t become too attached’.

    Stay awesome!

    Liked by 1 person

  3. faz says:

    Great post :)high five! Self motivation woop woop 🎉

    Liked by 1 person

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