We all at some point in our lives feel inadequate , maybe in the literal or in the metaphorical sense!
We feel a detachment from others and feel like someone just hit the stage lights over our heads. It is especially a nightmare for someone like me who would rather be a backup dancer than a performer . And then comes the inevitable thought of a change. A makeover. A do-over. A mask. An act.
What does one accomplish by this you ask ? One becomes the backup dancer again with the same costumes and same movements as the other dancers, losing ones uniqueness !
We all , I think will agree theoretically that this is wrong , we should be what we want to be but none and I mean NONE of us can practically be this indifferent. Change is a sign of evolution but a forced change is the sign of adaptibility which is not wrong but just flat ( for the lack of a better word ) and all black and white with no sunshine and rainbows.
Now personally I am a unicorn kinda girl . So I have decided that there will be no change until and unless I desire, want and demand one !
So change but for the better.
Change because you want to.
Change for not the others but yourself.
Change because that is what YOU desire.